Why We Love Geeky Wisdom!

For some, diving deep into the worlds of Dungeons & Dragons, comics, or cosplay might seem like a purely kid-friendly indulgence—just a hobby for a younger crowd. But for many of us, these passions have shaped who we are. They’re more than just pastimes—they’re the lenses through which we see the world.

I’ve been reflecting on how geek culture has been part of my life for decades. It’s always been there, evolving with me. It started in childhood, sure—like many of you, I found these worlds early on. But as I’ve grown, I’ve come to see how much they still influence me today.

These interests tap into something fundamental about being human. They’re about creativity and the freedom to imagine. They’re also about finding a place where you belong. Psychologist Erik Erikson talked about how we develop identity through social connection, and for many of us, geeky spaces have provided that safe ground. They’ve been places to find our people—whether we’re talking about late-night D&D sessions, conventions, or just a quiet conversation with someone who gets it.

Back in the 80s and 90s, this kind of stuff wasn’t exactly mainstream. Comics were for kids. D&D was met with suspicion—especially during the Satanic Panic. But even then, these hobbies gave me a way to explore and express myself. They were more than distractions—they were windows into new worlds and new ideas.

At the core of it all is fantasy. Fantasy lets us imagine something more—something beyond what’s right in front of us. It can be a temporary escape, sure. But it’s also a source of inspiration, and it teaches us to see the world in richer, more nuanced ways. It fuels empathy, creativity, and curiosity. And of course—it’s fun.

These days, comics, D&D, and cosplay have moved into the cultural mainstream. But that doesn’t change why we love them. The heart of it all is still there. Whether you’re rolling dice around a table or geeking out over a new superhero movie, it’s about the same thing: finding joy in the stories we tell together.

So if you’ve ever felt like you have to apologize for being into this stuff—don’t. Passion isn’t weakness. It’s what makes you, you.

I’d love to hear your own thoughts about how geeky wisdom has shaped your journey. Let me know in the comments, or check out the video for more reflections on why these stories matter to us.

Cheers,
Brian