D&D for Kids | Encouraging Roleplay

Role-playing is at the heart of D&D—especially for kids, it’s a chance to build confidence, explore creativity, and have a lot of fun. In this video, I share a few tips on how to encourage kids to dive into that role-play experience and make the game their own.

One thing I’ve noticed over the years: kids have amazing imaginations. They just need a little nudge to tap into that energy during the game. Here’s how to help them:

Keep descriptions vivid, but brief. Long-winded monologues can be overwhelming. Break up your scene-setting into short chunks and involve the kids in revealing more details through easy perception or investigation checks.

Minimize graphic violence. Combat is fun, but keep the descriptions appropriate for your group’s age range. Focus on the outcome—like “you swing your sword, and the monster is defeated”—rather than the gory details.

Use the “yes, and” principle. Say yes to their crazy ideas—let them try things, even if it’s outlandish. If it doesn’t work, describe how it fails in a way that keeps the story moving. This teaches them that role-playing games are about trying things and seeing what happens, not just winning.

Help when they’re stuck. Kids sometimes freeze up when faced with too many options. Offer them simple choices like, “Would you like to investigate the cart or come up with another plan?” This helps them see possibilities without feeling overwhelmed.

Remember, this isn’t just about D&D—it’s about learning to collaborate, use their imagination, and feel proud of what they bring to the table. Encourage them to speak up, ask questions, and enjoy every crazy idea they have.

If you’re looking for more advice on running games for kids, stay tuned—I’m working on more videos in this series.

Cheers,
Brian