Inadvertent Gatekeeping in Fandoms

Today’s post is a little different from the usual format. In this video, I’m not reading from a script or sharing a carefully structured list of tips. Instead, I wanted to talk openly about something that’s been on my mind: inadvertent gatekeeping in fandoms.

I watched a great video by Super Geek Mike that really got me thinking about how easy it can be to slip into gatekeeping—without even realizing it. It can be as simple as saying someone isn’t a “real” fan if they haven’t read the original comics or watched the old movies. I’ve definitely caught myself doing it, like teasing my brother for calling himself a Batman fan even though he hasn’t read every comic. Or assuming people who love the newer Star Wars movies aren’t “real” fans because they didn’t grow up with the originals.

But fandom isn’t a competition. Everyone’s way in is valid.

I also reflect on how this idea goes beyond just D&D or movies. We see it everywhere—sports, music, politics. Drawing lines around who counts as a “true fan” doesn’t do anyone any good. If someone finds joy in something, that’s enough.

The real takeaway? Let people love what they love—no lists of credentials required. And if you’re ever on the other side of it, feeling left out or judged, you’re not alone. It happens, but it’s worth recognizing and working on.

So no structured script for this one—just some honest thoughts and a hope that we can all help make our communities more welcoming for everyone.

For the full discussion and more context, check out the video.

Cheers,
Brian